EKURWE: OPEN LETTER TO THE YOUTHS OF AN ANONYMOUS KINGDOM 07
How would you view a student who refused to read because the father, a farmer, did not know how to read or was not interested in reading? If the actions of others determine your ideal behaviour, then you are not fit to be called a wise person. If you set a rule that elders must follow or arrange an expectation they must meet before they earn your respect, then you serve as a lawgiver, a judge and an executioner.
Some young people will say that elders are supposed to respect themselves, or that respect is reciprocal. Some will tell you that a particular elder does not deserve to be respected. My concern: you may be correct, but to what criteria and standards? Is it the one set by you and determined by you? Maybe it could be a high opinion of yourself or just catching the cruise of a self-appointed high court judge. I may not vouch for all elders or say some are not in the wrong, but do we build our society on disrespect? Can disrespect beget respect and harmony? What measure of disrespect will you dish out to equal the perceived disrespect you feel is meted out to you? What if your perspective is why you think the elders do not deserve respect?
In every society, the respect given to elders and constituted authority upholds the fabric of order, tradition, and cultural values. However, contemporary trends reveal a disconcerting shift—a growing disregard for the wisdom of elders and a lack of respect for constituted authority. What are the root causes of this negative societal transformation, and what are the consequences?
The erosion of respect for elders and constituted authority can be traced partly to a changing cultural landscape. Modern societies often prioritise individualism, personal autonomy, and reject traditional hierarchies. This shift can lead to a diminishing sense of obligation to uphold the values of respect and deference that have long been integral to the cohesion of communities.
The influence of role models in shaping societal norms is undeniable. When public figures, leaders, or influential individuals exhibit behaviour that lacks respect for elders, it sets a precedent for the broader population. The absence of positive role models who exemplify the virtues of respect can contribute to the normalisation of disrespectful behaviour.
Economic disparities and social inequality can intensify the erosion of respect for constituted authority. When individuals perceive that those in positions of authority are not acting in the best interests of the broader community, mistrust can arise. This disillusionment may manifest as a lack of respect for authority figures and an unwillingness to defer to their guidance.
The consequences of a society marked by a lack of respect for elders and constituted authority are far-reaching. Social harmony is compromised when individuals or groups challenge the legitimacy of authority structures, leading to increased tension, polarisation, and a breakdown in community cohesion. The erosion of respect can also hinder effective governance, as adherence to rules and regulations becomes a matter of individual discretion rather than collective responsibility.
To address this troubling trend, fostering a culture that values and promotes respect for elders and constituted authority is imperative. Youth organisations, clan organisations, and family units should play a vital role in instilling these values in younger generations. Encourage open conversations about the importance of respect, provide positive role models, and emphasise the shared responsibility of maintaining social order. A collective and intentional shift toward a more respectful society is possible.
The erosion of respect for elders and constituted authority represents a multi-faceted challenge that requires collective introspection and action. When we instil the values of respect for elders, we can restore the pillars of stability, tradition, and cultural harmony. We can aspire to build communities where the wisdom of elders is valued and constituted authority is regarded as a force for the collective good.
The eldership cap, na turn by turn, one day e go reach your head, as e no reach yet, no hurry, respect your elders till your turn go reach.
10-open letters, 3 more to go.
Dated 11th December, 2023
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